It can be extremely hard to transfer the responsibility of raising your children to someone else, but it is our duty to ensure our children will be in the best hands. That is why picking a legal guardian to look after the kids is necessary in case both parents die. You get plenty of time to think about who would be the best suitable option for your kids, and you can always change your mind because this decision cannot be rushed.
It is not necessary that you have to choose a married couple specifically to take care of your child because divorce can happen even among the best couples. There is always that question of whether your child will fit in with the rest of the children or not if the couple has any children of their own.
It is true that your parents did a great job raising you, but it should also be taken into account that they are old and may not be able to look after your children properly. It is also important to notice the relationship your kids share with their grandparents.
Your family friends are a better option, especially the ones having kids of the same age as your children. In this case, your children will connect easily with other children of the same age.
If your kids are old enough to make this decision, you can ask them whom they want to live with. You must ensure that your children have a good emotional connection with your chosen guardian.
If the person you chose refuses to take responsibility for your children, they can always go to their backup guardians. That is why it is very important to choose a good backup guardian for your kids in case the guardians reject the responsibility. All of these decisions would be hard to take, but every possible step should be taken to make sure that your children are in the right hands.
A joint will is often drafted by married couples to distribute their assets and properties. Couples usually have the same goals for the future and hence agree on a joint will. However, while it is possible to get a joint will for estate planning, lawyers mostly advise against it.
Joint will have specific rules that state if one of the spouses dies, the assets and estate automatically go to the surviving spouse. And when the second spouse dies, the estate goes to their children. Married couples find this way of estate planning easier and cheaper because they do not want two separate wills when they both have the same goals for the future.
The most common problem that arises with joint wills is that they cannot be changed after one spouse dies. In most cases, the surviving spouse does not have the power to change or alter the will without the second spouse. Whatever happens after one spouse’s death, the rules of the estate plan will remain the same.
Even if the surviving spouse remarries, they cannot include their children from the second marriage in the joint will. Similarly, they cannot remove anyone from the inheritance or sell the estate or the assets. It does not matter if the spouse wants to sell some part of the estate to meet their living expenses during hard times; a ‘joint will’ cannot be altered.
The living spouse cannot add executors or beneficiaries in the joint will. The beneficiaries that were born after the joint will was decided cannot also be included. The time for inheritance is also fixed and cannot be changed if one of the spouses has passed away.
Apart from that, joint wills are not legal in some countries. Many courts and judges often separate the joint will for both spouses or declare the whole joint will invalid in some states. And in many cases, the assets and properties get tied up in the joint will for years. This can cause many problems for the living spouse.
